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[memewhore]

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Things My Dream Daddy Would Say To Me

[hazeleyebabygirl]

Get over here now.“
“Mmmmm Princess, I love the way you smell.”
“What’s wrong Babygirl?”
“You are so beautiful Princess”
“Its okay little one Daddy is here”
“Look at those cute little blushing cheeks”
“Come sit in Daddy’s lap”
“Come here and let Daddy pet you”
“Get on your knees Babygirl”
“Show Daddy your cute little ass”
“Here let Daddy show you how to do that”
“Go get my flogger you bad little slut”
“Let Daddy help you with that”
“Show me what you want to do with Daddy’s cock”
“Shhhh princess or they will hear you”
“Sure princess of course you are the boss”
“Excuse me” Insert stern look here
“Those little whimpers only make me want you more princess”
“and just what do you think you’re doing?”
sexy growl
“Take off your clothes and wait for me on the bed”
“What a good little slut”
“Princess its time for a nap you’re grumpy”
“You like Daddy’s cock deep in your baby cunt don’t you princess”
“I know whats best for you and you will listen. Understand?”
“What did you just say to me”
“Don’t worry I will pick out your clothes princess”
“Bad girls don’t get to cum”
“My poor girl”
“I will not repeat myself”
“Now clean our cum off Daddy’s cock”
“Don’t you pout at me little one”
“Take off your panties and bring them to me”
“Bend over.. now”
“Turn pancake the pig around he won’t want to see this”
“Be a good girl and help Daddy”
“Sit at my feet baby girl”
“Okay but only one more kiss and then its ninight for you”
“You know what I want”
“Does princess want me to fill her tummy with sticky milk?”
“You can do it princess I believe in you”
“Remember, only Daddy can touch you here”
“You are mine”
“Are you throwing a fit?” insert stern look here
“Your little bottom is just begging for spankies”
“Are you wet for Daddy?”

[onlydaddycallsmebaby]

I wish someone would say these to me

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How to be the Perfect Little in 10 Steps!

[daddyspetite]

So, last week, I made the How to be the Perfect Daddy in 10 Steps post last week and, since it was multiplying so fast, I made a promise that if it got to 1.000 notes, I would create a How to be the Perfect Little in 10 Steps. So it did and now I am. And this is it. Here are some tips for you to be the perfect Little for your Daddy/Mommy. However, I shall say it again: since I’m a girl, I’m making those guidelines for Little Girls, but they can also be applied to Little Boys. I also know that some Littles like to be Dominant, but since I have never seen a case like that, I’ll stick with the idea of a Little being submissive.

• Please your Dom. This is the most important part and this is not only applied to DDLG, but to most BDSM relationships. Dominants like to feel important and needed. As you’re constantly seeking for attention, they’re constantly longing for you to need their attention. Think about it. As you become submissive or you’ve always been, your mind starts to ask you these weird questions that you’ve never knew that you thought about before. “How can I please my Daddy/Mommy?”, “How can I make Daddy/Mommy happy?”, “What would Daddy/Mommy want me to do?”. Your whole life will start to center in your Dominant’s desires, even if they don’t ask for you to do it.
• He/she owns you and he can do whatever he/she pleases with you. Unless they have crossed the limits, which I will talk about in a further topic, let them do as they please. You are his/hers, just like he/she is yours. Not as an object, but as your beloved partner. You own each other in the most romantic way.
  
• You are the Prince(ss), but he/she is the King/Queen. Of course they must attend to your desires, but it’s not a one-way go. Attend to their desires as well. Listen to them. You might be the Prince(ss), but you cannot be egocentric. Be selfless for your Dom just like he’s selfless for you. Don’t expect them to treat you like a Prince(ss) if you don’t treat them like King/Queen. They need to feel loved just like you.
• Sometimes, they need comfort too. Maybe they had a terrible day at work. Maybe they had a fight with a friend, or family, or someone they love. Maybe something he likes a lot is now broken. Let them talk, Little Prince(ss). Just like you, they’re human beings and sometimes they don’t want to be naughty. Sometimes, every once in a while they just want to be held and told everything’s going to be okay. Sometimes, they just want to watch Disney movies and eat chocolate in bed with you. Make sure they know that it is okay for them to do that.
• Let them participate on your Little time. When you’re feeling very Little, you will want to watch a lot of cartoons, suck on your paci 30 hours a day, have bubble baths and so on. Let them be a part of it. Most of the Daddies/Mommies love it and they will have a lot of fun with you, just like you will have a lot of fun with them. Alongside that, be cute. They love it. Dress up. Be pretty!
• Do not cheat. If you want to be with multiple people, let your Dom know that beforehand. The same thing goes for them as well. If it’s only a BDSM relationship, it’s fine. But if you have established to not be with anyone else but your partner, don’t stay with 10 Daddies/Mommies at the same time. Please. Shit’s ridiculous.
• Take care of their ouchies. Daddies/Mommies have boo boos too, sometimes even more than you, but they keep it to themselves because you’re a Little. Every once in a while, kiss their boo boos and hold them, let them feel loved and admired. Make sure their boo boos go away. A Daddy/Mommy without ouchies is a happy Daddy/Mommy. Never let your Dom go to bed in a sad mood. Kiss them and make them smile, it doesn’t matter how, just make them happy.
• Give him/her nicknames. We all know that when they call you Prince(ss) or Baby Girl (Boy) in public is totally fine, but when you call them Daddy/Mommy in public, things get a little weird. If you’re okay with that and don’t care, great. If you don’t feel comfortable with people knowing about your relationship, give them nicknames. Sometimes, I call my Daddy “Baba”, because I talk in my sleep, and when I call for him in my sleep, I say “Baba” instead of “Dada”. Don’t know why, just do.
• Unless it’s a Sugar Daddy/Mommy, they do not have any responsibility over you. Do not persuade your Dom into being your financially responsible partner unless this matter is discussed in the relationship. Of course they will want to spoil you with cute things, but that is completely different from being financially dependant.
  
• Do not be afraid to use a safe word. Sometimes your Dom crosses the line and they don’t do it on purpose. It’s an accident and a misunderstanding. Establish a safe word with your partner and don’t be afraid to use it. And most importantly, Littles, don’t make them feel guilty for crossing the line; Doms, don’t make your sub feel guilty for using the safe word. It happens to the best of us. When the safe word is said, the session/role play must end immediately and only return when both of you feel safe and comfortable to continue. In the aftercare, explain why you used it so that it won’t happen the next time.

The most important observation in the galaxy: 

If your Dom does not respect your safe word, leave.

Immediately.

And never look back. Doms that do not respect safe words are not Doms, they’re assholes and you don’t need that in your life. Find someone that adores you just like you adore them, that wants to please you just like you want to please them. Even though they’re Doms, they must be emotionally attached to you. Be in a healthy relationship where you want to make your partner happy just as much as your partner wants to make you happy.

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Daddy Rant

[daddysspace]

I’m honestly appalled right now. All these people out there calling themselves a Daddy and they are treating their precious Little’s like they come second. No, wrong. Little’s always come first! 

• Sex, for instance. I don’t even have to receive anything and I will always make sure my Little one gets to cummies as much as they can handle and maybe then some. I feel like that’s how it’s supposed to be. We are taking care of you, and making you happy and healthy is number one priority. No if’s, and’s, or but’s! (Of course there will be some butt’s though, if you’re doing it right!)
  
• Being there for them emotionally and physically (if possible, ldr’s are the exception). If they are sad, give them the proper attention! Set down your video games, put down the food even, wrap yourself around them with a stuffie in one hand and a paci in the other and just be there for them. If they are needy, play with them! It’s fun for both of you. Don’t be a stick in the mud. Daddy’s need play time too, If you can’t play with your Little, you don’t deserve them. Little’s need that play time outlet, don’t ever forget that.
  
• You don’t set rules to make your life easier. You set rules to make their life easier. They need direction, not someone to control them. There is a difference. 
  
• Their life may revolve around you but your world needs to revolve around them. A Daddy should be nurturing, devoted, reliable, sweet, understanding, patient, and should know what the Little wants sometimes even before they know they want it. If you are not these things then you are not a Daddy.
• Give them massages for a longer time than they would give you, give them bath time, tv time, play time, coloring time, toy time, nap time etc. Notice how those all have “time”? That’s because they are number one. They need all your time in order to have their time. Their time is very important to keep them happy. If you can’t devote this much time, then you are not a Daddy.
  

These are just a small portion of how in depth a Daddy/Little relationship can go. If you’re in a relationship where someone is claiming to be a Daddy and they don’t do these simple things then they are not a Daddy.

There are over 7 billion people in the world, plenty of fish in the sea. You are a precious Little, you’re beautiful, you’re adorable, and you deserve the best. Don’t forget that.

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What littles need to hear

[ddlglifestyleguide]

The smallest phrase can make our day brighter. Here are some phrases or comments you as a caregiver can say to make us feel special. These can be used in any D/s relationship but I made them DD/lg :)

🍭 “I’m proud of you little one”
🍭 “good girl/boy”
🍭 “don’t worry Daddy/Mommy is here”
🍭 “you’re safe with Daddy/Mommy”
🍭 “I love you babygirl/boy”
🍭 “you make Daddy/Mommy so very happy”
🍭 “you’re such a good little girl/boy”
🍭 “ you’re my baby”
🍭 “take your punishment like a good little girl/boy”
🍭 “you’re my pretty princess”
🍭" you mean the world to Daddy/ Mommy"
🍭 “you’re perfect just the way you are”

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Daddy’s rules

[a-caring-daddy]

Here are the rules, rewards and punishments that I’ve used with my littles. Keep in mind that Daddy can remove, add or edit any of the following at will >:). It’s also important to note that the safe-word can overrule any of the following.

Rules :O

1. Daddy will reward good behavior and punish bad behavior.
   
2. Always say please and thank you, manners are important
   
3. Always refer to Daddy as either ‘Daddy’ or ‘Sir’
4. Always text Daddy when waking up/ going to bed
   
5. Always tell Daddy the truth, always be honest
   
6. Always brush your teeth at least twice a day
7. Always tell Daddy how you feel be it happy, sad, aroused, or otherwise
   
8. Always ask Daddy if you want to play with your dirty little parts
9. Always thank Daddy for the punishments
10. Always ask permission for cumming, staying up late
11. Always follow Daddy’s instructions
    
12. Never question Daddy’s instructions but you may discuses them
    
13. Never be afraid to use the safe-word
14. Never hurt yourself, another person or break the law
15. Never withhold information from Daddy
16. Absolutely no swearing
    
17. Daddy will hand out at least one chore per day
    
18. Give Daddy time if I’m busy (unless you need me)
19. Not allowed to make passive-aggressive  replies “k,” “whatever,” etc.
20. Love yourself and Daddy with all your heart
    

Rewards ^^

1. Daddy’s mark (spanking)
   
2. Being allowed to chose your reward (only for very good girls)
   
3. Being allowed to chose your daily chores
4. Can ask Daddy to do anything :S
   
5. Massages
6. Bedtime story
   
7. Extra sweets
8. Ice cream
   
9. Daddy’s praise
10. Extended bedtime
    
11. Extra kisses
12. Extra cuddling
13. Extra extra cuddling
    
14. Falling asleep on Daddy’s lap
    
15. Daddy’s dick
    
16. Daddy’s cum
17. Hickeys <3
    

Punishments >:)

Soft core

1. Daddy’s mark (spanking)
2. Slapping oneself
   
3. Getting grounded
   
4. Writing lines of the wrongdoings
5. Making them read it to you/make a video of it
   
6. Early bedtime
7. No Tumblr (entire day)
8. Speech restrictions
   
9. Corner time, on knees, facing the wall with hands up (timed)
   
10. No more sweets (timed)
11. Forced flattery, flatter Daddy even if you don’t want to
    
12. No panties/bra (timed)
13. Strip naked
14. Crawling
    
15. Kneeling (additionally, on rice)
    
16. Unspeakable amount of teasing
    
17. Exercise
18. Sleeping on the floor/cage
    
19. Admitting something embarrassing (dreams, kinks, insecurities, wishes)
20. Cleaning duties with a toothbrush

Hard core >:)

1. Daddy’s mark (spanking)
   
2. Denying orgasm 
   
3. No more masturbation
   
4. Bondage (tied, gag, etc.)
   
5. Being slapped/hit
   
6. Impact play (the belt, flogger, crop, whip etc.)
   
7. Wearing a butt plug (timed)
   
8. Time out, no bathroom  (timed)
   
9. Excessive usage of degrading words. (whore, slut, bitch, etc.)
10. Writing degrading words on your body parts
11. Cold shower
    
12. Being tied to a place and left there
    
13. Licking the floor (cum, dirt, etc)
    
14. Pleasuring yourself in public bathrooms
15. Usage of hidden remote sex toys and social encounters
    
16. Nipple torture
    
17. Fear play
    
18. Rape play
    
19. No more body rights, your body becomes Daddy’s toy, used for whatever
20. Taking pictures or videos in combination with any of the above >:)
    

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Daddy’s Rules

[brattybabeblue]

1. Not allowed to make passive-aggressive “k,” “whatever,” etc. replies or talk back to Daddy.
2. Will tell Daddy when she goes somewhere, and check up with him (if possible) regularly to ensure she’s safe.
3. Not allowed to (intentionally) starve herself or purge.
4. Will inform Daddy of the start/end of her menstrual cycle.
5. During any form of intimacy, will say “I love you, Daddy” when and only when she orgasms.
6. Will text Daddy as soon as possible when she wakes up.
7. Will tell Daddy she loves him once a day either by voice, video, or in person.
8. If hit on/flirted with/etc. by either gender, will inform them that she is in a committed relationship.
9. Prior/during planned intimacy, she will wear panties (not a thong, G-string, or otherwise), and only take them off if asked or taken off for her.
10. Will not kiss, grope, be intimate/sexual with, or reveal herself to anybody other than Daddy, and will remember who she belongs to.
11. Will not deceive Daddy, and when asked, will tell him how she feels, be it happy, sad, uncomfortable, aroused, or otherwise.
12. Will not make a mess of Daddy’s home, car, etc. or destroy his things.
13. Will love Daddy unconditionally.
14. Will let Daddy sleep (if he asks) if not urgent.
15. Will call Daddy as such only in privacy.
16. Will not humiliate Daddy.
17. If uncomfortable, she will tell Daddy and Daddy will make everything alright.
18. Will accept as much teasing as Daddy sees fit.
19. Will tell Daddy when she can’t take any more, and accept it if Daddy chooses not to stop.
20. Will accept any form of punishment Daddy sees fit, and will accept any punishment even if nothing done wrong.
21. Will allow Daddy to have the final say in any decisions.
22. Will not disrupt Daddy if he’s trying to fix something, be it on a car, house, or otherwise.
23. If punishment is spanks, she will count.
24. If horny, she will tell Daddy (if he is around) so he may solve the problem.
25. Will not please herself unless she asks for permission.
These are the rules. Punishments will vary. Some rules are set in stone, and should never be broken.

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Daddy’s Rules for His Little One

[sweetdaddykisses]

1. Always follow Daddy’s instructions, because Daddy knows best.
2. Always ask Daddy for advice if you are unsure about something.
3. You have the right to use the safeword, without fear of judgement, if you do not feel right about doing something or genuinely do not want to do something.
4. Send a text to Daddy before going to sleep, and after waking up.
5. Do your best to eat meals every day. (Candy doesn’t count as a meal)
6. Brush your teeth at least twice a day.
7. Send a picture of yourself to Daddy at least once a week.
8. If you colour a picture for Daddy, send a picture of it to Daddy.
9. Always clean up after playtime, colouring, doing crafts… etc.
10. Don’t go to bed late on school nights.
11. Always tell Daddy when you are gonna have cummies.
12. No backtalking to Daddy. Daddy will issue one warning on this, before punishment.
13. Always tell Daddy when something is bothering you.
14. No drugs.
15. You have the right to call for hold time (suspension of power dynamic) and express your thoughts and feelings with Daddy at any time. Daddy will listen to you with an open mind and heart.

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🍭Daddy’s Rules🍭

[littlekittentoes]

To help me remember c: Hope this okay, Daddy (~￣▽￣)~

1. You will call me Daddy when we are alone, at kink events, or with kink friends.
   
2. You will not let others see you naked or your undergarments without my permission
   
3. You will arrive at your job or classes on time.
   
4. You will perform your work to the best of your abilities.
   
5. You will come directly home afterward, unless I say otherwise.
   
6. You will be prepared to provide a detailed account of your work or school day if I ask.
   
7. You have the right to use your safewords at any time without fear of judgement if you genuinely don’t want to do something or if something just doesn’t feel right.
   
8. You have the right to contact family members, friends, other submissives, kink support groups, and mental and physical health professionals.
   
9. You have the right to have friendships, hobbies, and social plans that don’t include me, provided you keep me informed of your whereabouts and who you’re with.
   
10. You have the right to call for hold time (a suspension of power dynamic) at any time and talk with me as equals, and expect your feelings and opinions to be heard, acknowledged, and respected.“ I also like this part a lot and don’t want you to forget it
    
11. Your bed time is 10:00 unless stated otherwise, every minute you are late is plus 5 spankings
    
12. You are to try and eat actual meals everyday, candy and sandwiches don’t count as an actual meal
    

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Things My Dream Daddy Would Say To Me

[imanaughtypet]

• “Get over here now.”
• “Mmmmm Princess, I love the way you smell.”
• “What’s wrong Babygirl?”
• “You are so beautiful Princess”
• “Its okay little one Daddy is here”
• “Look at those cute little blushing cheeks”
• “Come sit in Daddy’s lap”
• “Come here and let Daddy pet you”
• “Get on your knees Babygirl”
• “Show Daddy your cute little ass”
• “Here let Daddy show you how to do that”
• “Go get my flogger you bad little slut”
• “Let Daddy help you with that”
• “Show me what you want to do with Daddy’s cock”
• “Shhhh princess or they will hear you”
• “Sure princess of course you are the boss"
• “Excuse me“ *Insert stern look here*
• “Those little whimpers only make me want you more princess”
• “and just what do you think you’re doing?”
• *sexy growl*
• “Take off your clothes and wait for me on the bed”
• “What a good little slut”
• “Princess its time for a nap you’re grumpy”
• “You like Daddy’s cock deep in your baby cunt don’t you princess”
• “I know whats best for you and you will listen. Understand?”
• “What did you just say to me”
• “Don’t worry I will pick out your clothes princess”
• “Bad girls don’t get to cum”
• “My poor girl”
• “I will not repeat myself”
• “Now clean our cum off Daddy’s cock”
• “Don’t you pout at me little one”
• “Take off your panties and bring them to me”
• “Bend over.. now”
• “Turn pancake the pig around he won’t want to see this”
• “Be a good girl and help Daddy”
• “Sit at my feet baby girl”
• “Okay but only one more kiss and then its ninight for you”
• “You know what I want”
• “Does princess want me to fill her tummy with sticky milk?”
• “You can do it princess I believe in you”
• “Remember, only Daddy can touch you here”
• “You are mine”
• “Are you throwing a fit?” *insert stern look here*
• “Your little bottom is just begging for spankies”
• “Are you wet for Daddy?”

Feel free to add anything :)

[dominantlife]

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